Feb. 24th, 2012

whatawaytoburn: ([Misc] Partners In Crime)
So we've confessed, we've talked about what our kinks are,, and now I want to talk about something else.

A thread in kink in general is intimacy. Part of what you're doing is bringing you and your partner(s) closer together, binding yourselves to one another, closing the gap between you and bringing you as close as you can.

Or that''s the idea.

But other people do other things that are intimate, other people have different ways of being close to one another.

I tell stories. I want to tell them for a living but for now I tell them to friends and passers by on the internet. I consider this an intimate act. I consider it opening myself up and letting people meet me.. I am not very good at being a sociable person but I use my stories as a tool to get to know people and for them to get to know me.

<[personal profile] avia can vouch for this.

My partner and I will talk sometimes. It wont be intentional but we will get on a subject that needs to be spoken of.. We will talk for hours, We will talk and talk about all manner of subjects, going between silly and serious and back again. We call it therapy because, in the end we've gotten a lot off our chests.

I consider that intimate.

I consider hair brushing intimate, listening to music together intimate, and nonsexual touch more intimate than just about anything else i can think of.

What about you? What is intimate for you?


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